The month of September is marked by transitions—the days grow a little shorter, the air cools and families shift back to school schedules and seasonal traditions. But a family reunion can help bring those changes into focus, reminding us that no matter what else in life may change, our shared family history and bonds remain constant.
As families reconnect, they often create new traditions that honor and celebrate their heritage. Reunions can also serve as opportunities to introduce new family members, allowing newborns and young children to be introduced to extended relatives. This can be one of the most valuable aspects of a family reunion, as it weaves individuals into a fabric that is bigger than themselves and gives them a sense of belonging to an identity that precedes them and is theirs to carry forward.
During family reunions, older relatives can pass the baton by sharing their stories and teaching younger generations about their lineage. This storytelling can also be a way for family members to bond by talking about the same experiences, from Uncle Fred’s crazy antics to Aunt Suzie’s amazing pies.
To get the most out of a reunion, experts recommend starting planning early—as much as two years in advance for larger gatherings at hotels or other venues. A theme is a great way to unify decorations and simplify choice, and can be based on a certain era or family history. Designate family “reporters” to capture key moments, but encourage everyone to share photos and videos from their perspective—multiple perspectives can enrich the collective memory.